Wednesday, January 6, 2010

What WasThe Biggest Doubt In Your Life?



What was the biggest doubt in your life? Have you ever doubted the faithfulness of those close to you?



Tags: Biggest Doubt, Faithfulness, Marital Fidelity, Trustworthiness, Can Keep Secret, Tattle Tale, Gossip, Broken Promises, Betrayal, Desertion, Unfaithfulness, Fear, Fear of The Unknown, Gullible, Trust, Faith

Posted by: Mel Avila Alarilla
Philippines
Viewpoint/Opinion

15 comments:

kathy said...

I tend to trust people around me Kuya Mel.. Sometimes I trust too much to a fault... Kahit hubby ko pinagsasabihan ako na hindi lahat ng tao kay dapat paniwalaan kasi maraming mangloloko... LOL

I don't have any recollections of anything that I am so doubtful of.. Pag sinabi kasi sa akin ang isang bagay. ayon naniwala agad... Mabuti n lng naka-pngasawa ako ng mabait dahil kung hindi, naloko na cguro nya ako ng todo...

Salamat po sa post.. God bless you po...

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Mama Ko said...

I think we all have doubts in life to our friends, partner, or even ourselves. Me sometimes I doubted myself if I am capable to do extraordinary things. I also sometimes doubts if I can trust anybody but myself. Some trust issue, well pinipili ko lng naman whom to trust. But I am certain of my faith, fidelity, loyalty and more.

Dhemz said...

yikes...lalim ng topic dito...eheheh! I have doubted myself too kuyaMel...just like tsang....pero ngayon I am confident and have gained my self confidence back....:)

ako din I have some trust issue....once my intuition rolls...will follow my guts....kaya pinipili ko yung mga friends ko lalo na online.

salamat po sa dalaw at comments...glad to be here again...sensya na po at bihira akong makadalaw...super busy kasi ako sa impake eh..sa lunes na yung alis namin...will be back on Feb....kaya off ako sa blogging for 3 weeks...yikes...ehehhee!

bingkee said...

I'm a person who easily trusts...sometimes gullible. But when my instincts tell me there's something fishy or foul going on, I'm usually right.

Manang Kim said...

Thankfully, I don't put doubt or mistrust first in any relationships or even to God. I am a person who put trust first and if in the long ran something go wrong I don't pinpoint fingers to others rather I look at myself...where did I go wrong? Or is there a words that I say that make her/him feel bad about me. And saying sorry is not very hard to do humbling oneself is a treat that my parents taught us to be.
But if a trust is broken, it doesn't mean too that I couldn't be a good friend again I'd rather close my mouth and just shrug my shoulder and keep a distance. And forget everything. ^_^

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Kathy,
Mabuti rin yung trustful pero mas mabuti yung me spirit of discernment para malaman mo yung tutuo at peke. Maraming napapahamak sa sobrang pagtitiwala sa iba. Buti nga at napakabait nang napangasawa mo. At level headed siya. Kung minsan kailangan din ang konting pagdududa para hindi basta basta maloko. Salamat sa dalaw at komento. God bless you all always.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Shy,
Yun ang huwag mong gagawin- ang pagdudahan ang sarili mo. Wala kang maaaccomplish sa buhay kung duda ka palagi sa kapasidad mo. Baka naman natatakot ka na lolokohin ka nang sarili mo, hehehe, lol. Bakit naloko ka na ba nang sarili mo?, ehehe. Joke lang kaibigan. Pinatatawa lang kita para sumaya ang araw mo. Salamat sa dalaw at sa makatutuhanan mong komento palagi. God bless you all.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Dhemz,
Bakit saan ba ang alis ninyo? Marami yata akong na miss na happenings sa iyo. Hayaan mo, papasyal uli ako sa teritoryo mo para mang amoy nang bagong developments, lol. Matatagalan ka bang hindi magpo post at magba blog hop? Sana ay hindi matagal dahil mami miss ka namin. Ma mimiss namin si propesora, hehehe, lol. Walking encylopedia pa naman ang igan namin. Sige, salamat sa dalaw at komento. God bless you all always. Paki kiss naman ako kay Akesha.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Bingkee,
It's in the nature of Filipinos to be trustful but we must also be very careful to determine whether the people we trust are indeed trustworthy. We don't want to be victimized by unscrupulous persons. Thanks for your visit and comments. God bless you and your family always.

Bambie dear ★ said...

hmm your right, we should have trust in ourselves.. it also make sense, learnt to trust oursleves first so we can trust others.. am i making sense ba? Anyway about the question, i dont think i had the biggest doubt in my life, although i think i had doubted anyone, or anything alot of times pero I guess that's normal.. syempre di maiiwasan na masira ang tiwala, but what's important is we forget (and forgive).. EVerybody deserves a second chance =)

teJan said...

hmmm I can say that the biggest doubt I had before was "if there is really God that is alive and hear our cry because all I saw before are statue and not moving...but when I understand now and experienced His moving in my life, huh, there's only one whom i put my trust fully and thats my Lord:) That is already unnegotiable!

But then, for other people..hmm, I have this attitude to read people by the way they speak and act..hehe and I think this is a sign of not trusting anyone easily!

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Bambie,
Very sensible indeed. Hindi naman tayo dapat magtitiwala agad sa tao lalo pa't hindi natin masyadong kilala. I love your quote on forgiving and forgetting. That's a very positive trait indeed. Thanks for your visit and comments. God bless you all always.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi TeJan,
Yes, everybody has some doubts in some points in their lives. Natural lang questionin lahat nang bagay. But when we get some honest answers to life's hard questions, then our doubts will evaporate just like a mist. Thanks for your visit and comments. God bless you always.

jennifer said...

Trust does not come easy to me. It used to cause lots of problems for me but God finally convinced me that my focus should be my relationship with Him. I'm not saying that I am where I want to be in my walk with the Lord, but I am able to let go of some things that bothered me in the past because of Him.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Jennifer,
Yes, we should focus on the Lord so that we will not get off tracked in our walk with Him. Only His words are trustworthy and true and they will never fail. Thanks for your visit and comments. God bless you and your loved ones always.

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