Sunday, January 24, 2010

Have You Ever Experienced Being Betrayed Or Hurt So Bad That You Could Not Sleep At Night?





Have you ever experienced being betrayed or hurt so bad that you could not even sleep at night? Could you please share your experience with us?



Tags: Betrayed, Hurt, Sleepless Nights, Pain in The Heart, Bitterness, Betrayal, Stab at The Back, Loneliness, Aggrieved, Alone in The World, Desolation, Painful, Bitter Memories, Shock, Disbelief, Rage, Rant, Anger, Solitude

Posted by: Mel Avila Alarilla
Philippines
Viewpoint/Opinion

8 comments:

kathy said...

Yes I already experienced the betrayal and being hurt by somebody so much that I could not sleep at night... Iyak lng ng iyak..

It's my hubby's SIL(my BIL's wife) who hurt me so much back then and still does if she gets the chance... hehehe...

Eversince I married my hubby, they compared us na, and she don't like the idea of me being the more favorite. Kaya whenever she gets the chance to say something mean to me, she will not hesitate. Minsan sinabi nya na "I should stay away from her and her kids because she don't know what 3rd world country diseases I carry". Masakit... But it really hit me real hard when she refused to have Andrea in her house to play with her kids, saying that she would need to spray disinfectant in her house when my daughter leaves...

I dunno why she thinks like that. Wala naman kaming nakakhawang sakit. Andrea is healthy at naliligo naman kami araw2... hehehe...

Anyway, hindi ko sya inaway kasi alam ko hindi ako mananalo, hindi ko kasi ugali. At saka she's an alcoholic kaya she has all the guts and I would not argue with someone who does not have clear mind... She's been to rehad for drug addiction years ago so, I think I should just ignore whatever she says..

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Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Kathy,
You see some people have problems with themselves and sometimes they pour out their hatred to someone else. It's just too bad that it has to be you. She also showed her bigotry against minorities in the US. That she went in and out of the rehab just showed her real character. It's really good and proper on your part to just keep quiet about it and maintained your civility. Just try to avoid her as much as you could so that you will not be unduly affected by her rowdy behavior. God said it is His to avenge and He will do just that. Just pray for her. Daan ka pala sa aking Komentaryo, my Filipino blog. Feature dun ang mga chikitings nyong magkukumare sa post kong Daya-Logs. Thanks for your visit and very honest comments. God bless you all always.

Cookster said...

Well I agree with Mel. Iwasan mo na lang sya kasi hindi naman nya alam ginagawa nya.

Mel

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Manang Kim said...

Hi Mel,

I think everybody has one way or another experience all sorts of negative treatment that resulted to anguish, hatred, unforgiveness and often times quarrel.
I do have experienced all those stuff, but I guess it's my character not to buy it. Sa akin okey kung nakapasakit ka sa akin eh di goodbye. What for do I have to stay speak, or be friends, or have a relationships to anybody when they even don't think how I feel, right?
And then I am not manhid iiyakan ko talaga yan then I had to keep a distance at never na babalik pa yung nakaraan eh mahirap na baka may second the motion baka masabunutan ko na hehehe.
I am the kind of person na very conscious at ayaw talaga makasakit nang tao. Kung meron man akong nasaktan I will see to it that I will say sorry.

^_^

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Cookster,
Thanks for dropping by at this site and clicking my ads. I really appreciate that. Yes, I will also visit your site and follow you on Googles. Thanks for your visit and nice words. God bless.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Kim,
Nakakatuwa ka talaga. Mapagpatawad ka but at the same time you are so honest with your feelings. I like that. The more that I know you, the more that I like you as a friend. Faithful friend ka at maalalahanin. That's why your hubby loves you so much. Ganun din siguro ang magiging reaction ko kung me makakasakit sa akin. Iiwasan ko na lang para hindi niya maulit yung ginawa niya pero kakalimutan ko na kung ano man yung nagawa niya. Thanks for your visit and very enjoyable comments. God bless you always.

bingkee said...

Of course. A previous business partner betrayed me, and not only that but deceived me and humiliated me. I felt my whole world crashed down that when I cried I felt like I was gonna die of heart attack because I couldn't breathe anymore from sobbing too much. For about 3 months, I couldn't sleep and had lost so much weight. But it turned out that was a blessing in disguise. I came to know his true colors, and because of that , I had to leave the Philippines and came here to the US where I found most of my blessings.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Bingkee,
Yes, as the saying goes, when one door close another window of opportunity opens. As you said, it became a blessing in disguise and in due time you would have forgotten the pain and hurt that that person bought into you life. Then you can move on. Thanks for sharing your honest painful experience to us. God bless you always.

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