Tuesday, March 4, 2008

Marriage, Anyone?

What would you rather have, a living-in arrangement before marriage or immediate marriage for young couples before they live in?


*~*Sameera*~* said...

I really have not much to say here but I feel live-in though ethically criticized and quite in vogue these days are a good way out in case of people who love each other and want to marry in near future,but certainly not a means for checking out if an arranged marriage would work.

Arthur said...

I choose immediate marriage before living in. Living-in before marriage I think and I feel is a sin. And I don't want to burn myself in the eternal fire.

So I choose Marriage first, then living-in with the spouse. And then, let the kids come.

Big greetings and big hugs

Sweet Dreams, from the bottom of my Heart:

Gusthav said...

Mmmm, that would be a sin a living-in before marriage, but, in order to know better your partner, I think it's better living-in first, then, if it works well, go ahead with the marriage; if no, say bye-bye to the partner, 'cause if you are already married, a divorce can be complex.

So I choose living-in first, and then, the marriage.

Greetings and hugs

Nice Day, with my whole soul:

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Sameera,
Thanks for your point of view. I will not state my own point of view here since I am supposed to be the moderator. I hope you will support this new blog of mine since I will make this later on as a commercial blog to have even a little bit of income. God bless you and your loved ones. Have a great day in Dubai my wonderful friend.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Arthur,
Well said. That is the conservative point of view. As a Catholic, you have no other way but that way. Thanks for your visit and your point of view. God bless you and your loved ones always my young friend.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Gusthav,
Aha, you have an opposite point of view from that of Arthur's. Ha, ha, ha, Don't quarrel with each other, that's just a point of view and all people are entitled to their own personal points of view. So you are the maverick one my young friend. Go ahead then, if that is your point of view in life. Thanks for your visit and your interesting comments. God bless you and your loved ones always.

c e e d y said...

Well if you have tried the later and not suceeded....then I prefer the first option

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Ceedy,
Well said my friend. People make their own choices for the most important things in their lives. God bless.

krystyna said...

In my opinion, first be mature for marriage. Love - needs time to be sure, and it is responsibility -kids,
and respect each other.

Marriage, and than living-in with the spouse. It is well.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Krystyna,
Your point of view is well taken. Words of wisdom from someone who has been there. Thanks for your visit and comments. God bless you and your family always my friend.


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