Sunday, March 23, 2008

First Love, Sweet or Bitter?

Are the memories of your first love sweet or bitter? What lesson did it convey to your life? Please explain your answer.


Prily said...

My memory is a bitter one.My parents didn't agree because i was still 14 year old!But a good girl as i am,i followed them!Thanks to my parents!It was bitter because too many parties are involved!God finds a way and i am so glad we broke up!

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Prily,
Good thing that you obeyed your parents. As a youngster and a teener at the age of 14, you could not have possessed the maturity to decide your future. Mothers know best for their children. Thanks for your wonderful comments. God bless you and your loved ones always.

SambY said...

my first love has sweet memories :)... i was too smal to have bitter memories Its always nice to have that warm feeling... maybe it was just an infatuation..but it was one of the best moments of my life

god gbless u for such anncie n unique post

Arthur said...

Hi Mel, you know, my first love has not come yet. So I cannot know if it's sweet or bitter. OOPS!

Big greetings and big hugs

Sweet Dreams, from thr bottom of my Heart:

Gusthav said...

Hi Mel, it first sight, my first love was sweet. During our engagement there were only sweet moments (well, not all of them were sweet, but nothing that couldn't be fixed).

Now it's over, but I didn't feel it bitter. I just remember the sweet moments I had with her, and cutting our relationship was better than starting arguing or having serious trouble.

Greetings and hugs

Nice Day, with my whole soul:

Gusthav said...

Sorry I couldn't come last time.

Greetings and hugs

Happy Easter (too late, oh-oh!)

Nice Day, with my whole soul:

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Samby,
You are right. Most probably, memories of our first love are always sweet because it was the first time that we felt such strange sensation in all of our young life then. It was a strange and mysterious feeling so unlike anything we felt before. Thanks for sharing with us your sweet memories of your first love. God bless you and your loved ones always.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Arthur,
That's okay my young friend. Just enjoy your life as a carefree single individual because the moment you are hit by the arrow of cupid, your world will never be the same again. So enjoy your carefree life to the fullest. Thanks for your visit and God bless you and your family always my young friend.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Gusthav,
It's so nice that you already had your experience with your first love and like Samby you felt no bitterness about it. May be you were really not meant for each other. You will find your true love in God's time. Thanks for your visit my friend and that's okay if you were not around last time. I will always understand. Thanks for your visit and God bless you and your family always my young friend.

Lena said...

well, mine is bittersweet. I mean now i am glad it didnt work out and i have really good memories of those times but i wouldnt want to be with that person for the rest of my life. I guess i changed a lot in these years :)

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Lena,
Yes, we can say that memories of our first love is bittersweet. It's a mixed emotion. But it had its place in our psyche. Thanks for your point of view. God bless.

My Daily Thoughts said...

I actualyy can't remember who is my first love or did I ever have one... Or can I call it first love or first crush... Love is so deep that I cannot compare with those sweety, cutie feelings for someone just because he is cute.... lols

c e e d y said...

I think not everyone is lucky to fall in love - so if you have had that first love - cherish it...for me they are and always will be moments that made me realize how wonderful life can be.......

thanks again mel

noushy syah said...

" My first love,
You're every breath that I take
You're every step I make

And I...
I want to share
All my love with you
No one else will do...

And your eyes
Your eyes, your eyes
They tell me how much you care
Ooh yes, you will always be
My endless love...."

Hehehhe..that's it and still on..I'm so in love and it is so sweet!! Something that will be remembered and treasured forever!! It affects my life that gives me all the strength and power of motivation,inspiration to both of us and because of this love we are getting better and better in our studies and our parents noticed that and always pray for us to be together till the end..:)

Hope it's the first and the last for both of us!

caca said...

it was sweet of course, but it turned out bitter later. :(

but move on, i must. :)

bOjOy said...

first love? it's bitter sweet. bitter because he never became mine.:( and sweet because he showed me feelings i didn't knew existed.


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