Sunday, August 15, 2010

How Do You Feel When You Discipline Your Child?




How do you feel when you discipline your child? Do you balk at disciplining your child?




8 comments:

Parenting Class said...

So many discipline techniques. So many theories. Positive reinforcement has long been used in training animals with magnificent results. That's what I'm trying on my kiddos and it's working so far.

Dhemz said...

I feel bad and guilty sometimes...but I know it's for her own sake naman....minsan over da bakod na yung pagdidisiplina ko kay Akesha....bawal pa naman ang spanking dito sa US...baka ma 911 pa ako...ehehehhe!

charmie said...

I'm sorry kuya, wala pa ako maishare :)God Bless po!

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Parenting Class,
People have individual differences and so are children. There's no fast rules on how to discipline a child. It should be based on love and the desire to see the child grow in the fear of the Lord and as good citizens of our country. We follow the heart and always pray for God's guidance before we discipline or punish our child. Thanks for your visit and comments. God bless.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Charmie,
Of course I understand because you are still single and do not have a baby. Maybe in the succeeding years you will already have, lol. Thanks for your visit and comments. God bless you always.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi Dhemz,
Ingat ka lang na hindi mo napapalo si Akesha dahil sa init nang ulo o dahil sa personal problems. Ang pamamalo ay last resort na ang intensyon ay ma reform yung bata at hindi para parusahan. Alam mo naman ang hangganan nang pagdidisiplina. Thanks for your visit and comments. God bless you all always.

Mel Cole of PA, USA said...

I feel like I don't wanna be like how Mama and Papa disciplined us before. So when I discipline George, I make sure that I won't go beyond hurting him so much more.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Hi MelCole,
Disciplining our children does not mean hurting or spanking. Spanking should be the last resort if all else failed. A word of admonition or explaining the would be outcome of their deeds would probably be enough. But children nowadays are quite rebellious than children of yesteryears. There's just too much emphasis on individual freedom that sometimes kids abuse it by threatening to call 911 whenever reprimanded by their parents. Nothing beats bringing our kids to the way of the Lord. Thanks for your visit and comments. God bless you all always.

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